Thursday, August 23, 2007

Vandy Again

Hard to see what I'm typing through tears...

We all knew this day would come, hoping only that he'd not suffer too much in passing.
From Hawk's report, sounds like we got our wish.
For me, it's a strange feeling, losing this man.
Other than the fleeting conversations I stole during our reunions, I've had no contact with him at all since graduation.

And yet, it's somewhat like losing a Father.

Vandy counseled me on more than one occasion in High School. I wasn't a bad kid, just "high spirited".
I received a ticket for reckless driving on the way to school once, from a State Trooper who initially would have had my head on a plate had he been able. He wrote the ticket in Vandy's office, with Mr. V. looking over his shoulder.
Then somewhere along the line, this Trooper had an attitude change, and actually came to court with me to plead for a mild sentence.
I think I know what happened to cause that change of heart.


You've read my post about Tools, Ron, and I bein' expelled.
What else could he have done? He made his point, then the anger was gone. After, he treated me no differently than he had before... no differently than he treated any other student.


He touched us all, shaped us all, directed us all.
We are what we are, to some extent, because of the guidance, strength, and example of this man.
We'll all miss him.
I'm grateful to have known him.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

I didn't go to Center Grove, but my mom works at the retirement home that Vandy was living at. I got to meet him a few times there and he was a nice, funny man. Every resident and employee there cared about him, which I feel is a good testament to a man's character. I'm sorry for your loss.

Greybeard said...

Anon-
Thank you for taking the time to share that!

Purple Tabby said...

Anon, that is SO nice of you to add that note. Thank you so very much. And please thank the folks at the retirement home for being so good to him. He made friends wherever we went.

Anonymous said...

I received this from one of my customers tonight.

I loved Mr. Vandermeer. He lived down the street from me. Nicest man on the street. As many years that I had to sell stupid fundraisers for all the youth sports teams I was on (that's 3 seasons a year from 1st through 6th grade), he always bought from me . . . and each of my siblings . . . and every other snot-nosed crumbsnatcher that came to his door. We egged and soaped many windows in my neighborhood growing up -- but his was off limits.

Mr. and Mrs. Vandermeer were wonderful people that touched many lives and I'm thankful mine was one of them.

-- Roc
Dr. Roc A. Byrd
Cornerstone Chiropractic, PC


C

The Joker said...

Mr. Vandermeer was my high school principle, but I never really got to know him like so many of you did. I never did anything to stand out in school nor anything outstanding, good or bad, therefore our paths never directly crossed and the occasion never arose for us to have any sort of communication one-on-one during my school years. I'm sure Mr. Vandermeer knew who I was but I don't believe we ever said 2 words to each other. I liked him well enough and thought it was funny when he wanted to make a point and started out by saying, "People.”

Since I've been on this blog I have heard nothing but good things about him and how admired he was throughout the community. I’ve heard people comment on the reunions and mini reunions he came to and what a caring and thoughtful person he was throughout his life. I'm sorry I missed the opportunity to get to know him better. He was definitely one of the “good guys” of our world and I’m glad he was my high school principle.

Anonymous said...

A sad day for the VK Blog & Kids. Wonderful words on the Blog from all the "Kids" and Anon that have made me stop this morning and take a mini-trip back in time...
Odd, isn't it how one person can touch & influence so many people in a lifetime... and touched we were by this man.
I have to ask myself today: "Who have I touched?"
I'll be thinking of all the VK's today and pass the news on to my sister, brother & their families. There are 5 people with the Vandy Touch right there.
FlyGirl

Anonymous said...

Like Joker I didn't really know him very well in high school. Actually, I didn't even know he knew my name until the mini in Nashville when he called me by my name and asked about my older brother (class of '60). Just think how many names that man kept in his memory!

He was a wonderful, wonderful man. We'll all miss him.

Ferdy

Anonymous said...

I'm a reporter with the Daily Journal working on a tribute article about Mr. Vandermeer. I was hoping we could get permission to publish excerpts from some of the blog postings and also to talk to those who'd like to share any memories. If anyone has any photos of Mr. Vandermeer at the school, they'd also be vastly appreciated.
Please e-mail blog postings we could use to accompany an article to jpete@thejournalnet.com or call me at 736-2776 if you would like to pay homage or share memories of Mr. Vandermeer. Many thanks and my condolences for the loss.

Joseph Pete
Daily Journal
736-2776
jpete@thejournalnet.com

Anonymous said...

We were so blessed to have Mr. V as our Principal. We always knew he was the boss but never really feared him. Instead we admired his humor and principles and were influenced by his great enthusiaum for life. We always knew he supported us in academics and other activities. He was very much a father to his students.

Bo

Anonymous said...

This sight is wonderfull! I am another "Vandy" Melvins great nephew from central Illinois. I am so glad to see the support Great Uncle Mel got from the area and wish I could have known him as well as some of you did. A few times I got" do I have to be a cop?" from him. (I've been one for over 25 years)

Greybeard said...

Welcome David!
Bein' admonished by Vandy makes you a "Vandy's Kid" too!

Purple Tabby said...

David, I hope you get to hear some of the stories about Vandy and OJ and Mr. Clements. It would have been worth a fortune for you to catch them during some of their shenanigans.

Ah, but Vandy wouldn't have missed a beat and would have had you joining them as the biggest duck in the puddle,,, blue uniform and all.

Welcome aboard!